Most of us strive to become
leaders. We want to do something great,
be respected by our peers, make more
money and acquire more responsibility.
Overall, we want to make a difference at
our job. However, most of us simply
don’t know the proper way to gain
heightened respect, confidence and
admiration from those whom we work
with.
In reality, there is no simple answer to
leadership. It takes devotion, time and
patience. Most importantly, it takes
knowledge.
A firm understanding of leadership
Without a firm understanding of what
makes someone more influential, you
cannot begin to alter your beliefs, and
practices accordingly.
Though, once aware of the traits that
make someone more authoritative, you
can formulate a plan to improve upon
lacking areas and alter the behaviors
preventing you from achieving
management and executive status.
Below, you’ll find a list of traits that our
sales and marketing headhunters look for
in leaders, along with some exercises to
enhance your influence and responsibility
at work.
1. Strength - Begin to carry yourself with
poise and confidence. People are drawn
to confidence and shy away from
nervousness, lack of authenticity and
insecurity.
How you feel about yourself will dictate
your ability to lead and command
authority. Essentially, if you don’t feel
you’re important and deserving, don’t
expect your co-workers to.
If you have come across as anxious and
unassertive with your co-workers in the
past, don’t focus on these shortcomings.
Your co-workers, like anyone else will
have a short memory and so should you.
From now on, think of the prior
experiences as a learning tool rather than
a future forecaster.
With that being said, here are some
exercises on how to increase self-
confidence and perceived strength:
a. Challenge the negative beliefs you
have about yourself. Instead of focusing
all your energy on what you don’t like
about you, give equal weight to all your
positive qualities.
b. Focus on past successes rather than
failures. Don’t mull over what you’ve
done incorrectly. It’s more productive to
think about all the things you’ve done
right in the past. Reinforce these thoughts
repeatedly.
c. Stop always needing to be right.
Understand there is nothing shameful
about past work mistakes.
d. Stop looking to others for acceptance
and happiness. Learn that you don’t need
anyone’s approval for your own self-
confidence.
e. The recruiters at KAS Placement
strongly suggest that you let go of any
anger that you are holding on to. Anger
and resentment will prove a significant
barrier to you becoming a leader at work.
2. Positive Energy - Leaders show
positive energy and optimism, showering
their people with a can-do attitude. This
outlook draws co-workers to them and
paves the way for influence, respect and
admiration from others.
In terms of leadership, positive energy
has a multitude of benefits and is nothing
short of a crucial component.
When you’re positive, you think in terms
of solutions, not problems, you inspire
risk taking, tend to be more resilient and
think more clearly.
Moreover, you are more assertive and
your candor allows for quicker, more
open communication amongst the other
employees. This is the foundation of
strong leadership.
3. Passion - Being passionate about your
job means possessing a heartfelt, deep
and authentic excitement about work.
This excitement is infectious and
naturally will draw others to your way of
thinking.
People follow positivity, effectiveness,
intelligence and resiliency. All of which
are byproducts of loving what you do.
Until you learn to love work, you can’t
hope to display the necessary positive
energy leadership requires.
Either proactively search for the perfect
employment or train yourself to become
more passionate in your current job.
Regardless, make a firm decision to stay
or leave and follow through with it.
Here are a few ways how to increase your
passion for work:
a. Increase your performance. Leaders do
everything possible to increase the
effectiveness of their work. They put in
the extra time and sincerely enjoy what
they do partly because others admire
their efforts.
b. Think about what is going right rather
than obsessing about your problems.
Understand that no job is going to be
perfect and create a reality that is more
upbeat and success focused.
c. Stop focusing on what people “owe”
you and begin focusing on what you can
do to standout.
4. Selflessness - Leaders are selfless.
They are more interested in group
achievements as opposed to chasing
their own goals.
By consistently pouring out
encouragement, caring and recognition,
your co-workers will become more drawn
to you. Regardless of whether or not you
are management, take every opportunity
to inject self-confidence into those who
earned it.
In the end
Most significant things at work and in life
require work, study and most important,
practice. Leadership is no different.
Understand that no one is born a leader.
Rather, they decide to mold themselves
into one.

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